Saturday, October 12, 2013

I’m Pregnant For My Cousin Again, After 2 Abortions

Dear Diamond Odey,
         A friend recommended your blog to me I’m a polytechnic student and I am pregnant for my cousin for the third time. Me and my cousin are age mates in our early twenties, we’ve been secretly dating for 2 years now.
I don’t have a boyfriend neither does he have a girlfriend, we started having sex 2 years ago and this is my third pregnancy for him, we’ve previously aborted 2 pregnancy that almost took my life. Its all started when I gained admission in his school, I was told to live with him for some period before I would get my own accomodation cos he was a year senior to me and he was living alone in one room on campus.

I accepted to live with him cos we are cousins and I see nothing bad in it, to cut the story short we started having sex due to the fact that I’m always careless with my body. I broke up with my boyfriend and he also did the same thing to his girlfriend, we fell in love with each other, we were behaving like couples to the extent that neighbours were suspecting, we had sex almost everytime cos I decided to live with him as couples on campus before my mother separated us because she wasn’t comfortable with the way we were living together.

Now, I am pregnant again and I am really scared of abortion because the last one I did almost took my life, its not like we don’t use condoms but we can be careless sometimes. Our parents must not hear about it, I’m 6 weeks gone now, my cousin is begging to go for an abortion but I am so scared and out of my mind cos I don’t want to die.
 Please Home Alone Readers Help this lady
I don’t know what to do, I’m even considering informing our parents cos I don’t want to die, what can I do apart from abortion?


  1. U need Jesus Christ

  2. first of all you need jesus
    secondly do not abort
    pray to God to forgive you

  3. Jesus is the only way, run to him n he will save ur soul. Trust in him n he will direct u on what to do (provs 3:5-6)


  4. I agree u rili rili need Jesus but u have ur own part 2 play. U nid 2 inform both u & his parents & severe all ties wit dis guy. God can 4give any sin so he'l 4give u 4 ur incest & previous abortions but now dat'l u'll hav him in ur lyf u'll now undastand dat its a sin 2 commit abortion so u can't abort dis 1 let God hav his way in ur lyf.

  5. Thank u Very much for your advice, but I'm scared of what people will say
    I'm scared of the embarrassment I'll face if I don't abort this child

    1. Honey contact Restoring Eden Foundation,and tell them whats happening and they may be able to help you. Here's their email:

    2. Please do they also give relationship advice, I have a problem

  6. Are pipple mindin wht som1 says in dis tymes again do wht will save u nd u don't regret nd cn stil make u happy nd move 4get tins dat are past,1tin live dat guy u cal ur cousin dat won't giv u d best solution 2d problem dan fuckin up,tkin advantage of ur naïveness u are 2beautiful 2b messed up, even neva meet u I knw u are beautiful mayb nt facial bt ur spirit.By nastrada mus concept.07030139270..